Colorado Wedding Reception Sites

You're getting married in Colorado! You have the ring now your next step is to find that perfect location to hold your big party and reception. We have put together an archive of many popular reception halls that have a perfect setting for any price range from all over the beautiful state of Colorado including the Denver and mountain range areas. Couples in need of a reception location for their Colorado wedding are encouraged to review and contact these professionals.

• The Peaks Resort & Golden Door Spa
  With a stylistic décor and setting of unmatched beauty, The Peaks Resort & Golden Door Spa is the ideal place for enchanting Telluride weddings. Telluride, CO 866-282-4557

• Wyndham Colorado Springs Hotel
  Tucked away in the midst of the Rocky Mountains, the Wyndham Colorado Springs Hotel provides an unforgettable location for your wedding reception. Colorado Springs, CO 719-260-1800

• Elk Mountain Resort
  When it comes to the ideal setting for a wedding or special occasion, Elk Mountain Resort is the perfect host. Montrose, CO 877-355-9255

• The Overlook Event Center
  We are an event/banquet center located in south Denver. We also have an outdoor area for ceremonies. Littleton, CO 303-795-6500

• Royal Gorge Bridge & Park and Bighorn Mountaintop Lodge
  Ceremony and reception sites. Catering available. Canon City, CO 719-275-7507

• Briarhurst Manor
  Pink sandstone mansion, Elegant gazebos and a Victorian rose garden. Manitou Springs, CO 719-685-1864

• Stonebrook Manor
  New large facility. Can accommodate up to 1500 guests inside and outside. Waterfalls, gardens, gazebos, stairways overlooking ballrooms. Thornton, CO 303-255-0063

• The Hudson Gardens & Event Center
  Surrounded by thirty acres of uniquely presented Gardens, The Hudson Gardens & Event Center offers a variety of distinctively different venues. Our spectacular setting paints the perfect backdrop for all occasions. Littleton, CO 303-797-8565 ext.326

• Table Mountain Inn
  Moderately priced; 20-150 capacity; bridal suite with wedding reception; hotel rooms; custom menus; unique southwestern decor. Golden, CO 303-216-8010

• Lionsgate Event Centers
  2 unique & private facilities seating 20-400 people. Base prices include tables, chairs, linens, tableware, centerpieces, customized set up, on site event manager and unlimited event planning. Lafayette, CO 303-665-6525

• Columbine Inn & Restaurant
  We are an authentic Rocky Mountain Lodge offering a wide variety of catering options. we are here to help you make your day perfect. Green Mountain Falls, CO 719-684-0808

• Christies of Genesee
  We specialize in all-inclusive events including wedding ceremonies and receptions and offer a full bar, diverse menu, seating for 150 in our dining room, dance floor, outdoor patio and garden. Golden, CO 303-526-5567

• Romantic River Song Bed & Breakfast
  In the Estes Park, Colorado, the heart of the Rocky Mountains, we will make your special day a memorable one. Nestled in the Colorado Mountains, we offer a romantic setting for a unique mountain wedding, reception, or honeymoon. Estes Park, CO 970-586-4666

We hope you will find among this elegant collection of Colorado and Denver area reception sites, a reception hall, banquet facility or wedding site that will fit your style and taste. Next step… your wedding dress and don't forget your favors!

How To Write Tender Proposal

Hi Guys, have you looked at your girlfriend and you just knew, that this is the one you want to be

your wife?

But you either you don't know how or you want to make this a special and romantic occasion.

Well..........Let me tell you that you are not the only one.

You could propose with the old stand-by where you get down on your knees, hold up the ring as

a great offering and hope that the stone is big enough to catch her eye.

How much better and nicer it would be if you could come up with a way of asking the same

question, but in a way so romantic that she just can't turn you down.

What would you say if told you that there is a way of doing things differently.

Ironically, most of the disappointed fiancees said that their beloved had spent over $300 on the

marriage proposal (not counting the ring.) So it is obvious that limos and fancy dinners aren't

what makes a proposal romantic and memorable. You want it to be amazingly special.

Something she will want to share with everyone.

In a recent survey, over 80% of women who were proposed to said that the marriage proposal

was "less romantic" than they had hoped for.

Of course, you want to be known as this great "romantic" guy who went like way out to make this

an unforgettable proposal. (one she will tell all her girl friends, and we all know about the saying:

telephone, television, and tell-a-woman)

You'll be the talk of the town, and your friends will be asking you to help them to make a fancy

proposal for them.

Here are some things to think about:
* The worst or best time of day to get engaged

This would depend on whether you or your love are a morning or night person.

* What four words you should NEVER say during a proposal

Do you know that there are words you should not use?

I know, I know, you can think of a few words you won't use, but maybe, just maybe.........

there are a few more that you haven't thought of.
* Where are three places you should NEVER pop the question

I bet you hadn't thought about this, did you? I can hear you say: "There are places that I should

not be when I propose?"

Yes, as strange as it sounds, these places exist.

AND.........
* A little known secret into getting an engagement ring

(one that is usually far nicer than one you could afford to buy)

If your "engagement ring budget" is a little low.........

Wouldn't you like to know how to buy a engagement ring at a better price?

* What are the 5 things you MUST do if you want to videotape your proposal

Something else to know, get a buddy or a professional to tape?
* How to get your proposal aired on television

And get television exposure too? Why not? Are the two of you not worth it?
* How to make $500 from your proposal - it's pretty simple really

What? you say I can make money proposing to my love? Well...........yeah!

So, if your were thinking to rent a paddle boat and propose on the water,

Popping the question on the Eiffel tower,

Having a waiter bring the ring out on a platter.

in a hot air balloon, or with a fortune cookie.

These have all been done before, you have to do it "your way".

Those ideas are nice, but certainly nothing worth writing a book about

So, if you are thinking of getting engaged, you probably want to do it right.

You want it to be amazingly special. Something she will want to share with everyone.

Wedding - The Grandest Day in a Couple's Life

There are so many occasions that we celebrate, and for all of these moments, good preparation usually ensures perfection. This is very much true in wedding preparations, and these preparations do take a much longer time than the wedding day itself. However, for all the preparation weddings take, there are some things that are usually forgotten.

Her Gift, His Gift

When I say wedding gift, I do not mean the wedding gifts that the couple receive from their guests. I mean the "wedding gifts" that are given by the couple to each other. I do not mean "giving themselves to each other" as the wedding gift itself; they can also give a little something to each other to remember the day by.

A perfect wedding gift for the bride usually is jewelry. Yes, she will have the wedding ring, but he can also give her a necklace to complement the ring or a simple bracelet with their names engraved. Likewise, the bride can give the groom a wonderful pair of cufflinks to go with his tuxedo during their wedding day. If they want to save some money, it can be a simple 'note' that says 'massage,' and he or she can claim it not during the wedding night itself but on a day when he or she really wants or needs it. It can even be a note that says 'romantic dinner for two.'

Do Not Forget the Shoes

This is the one thing that is usually chosen at the last minute. When choosing the wedding gown or tuxedo, always think of the perfect wedding shoes that will complement it. For the bride, she can have it custom-made to fit her wedding gown, perhaps using some of the materials used in the gown instead of looking in countless shoe stores and malls, or she can even have it done with the same pattern of embroidery found in her wedding gown.

However, if you are a practical kind of bride, go for those shoes that you can reuse later on. Just remember, choose the pair of shoes that you will be comfortable wearing since it is a long and special occasion. You will be on your feet and dancing a good part of the night, and you would definitely not want sore feet during that event to take away some of the fun. This also goes for the groom's wedding shoes.

So Many Flowers to Choose From

Yes…there are a lot of flowers to choose from, and it can be very daunting to go into a florist shop with no idea of what kind of flower you want during your wedding. The vast choices of flowers can also give you a headache. Thus, before you go into a florist shop, you can use the Internet to browse through different kinds of bridal bouquets and floral arrangements. You can even print them out and show them to your florist. If choosing the flower is really difficult for you, listen to your florist as they know what they are talking about but do voice out what you want to make the floral arrangements and bouquets more personal.

The Role Of The Best Man

The best man is the chief attendant of the bridegroom at the wedding. The honor is typically bequeathed to the bridegroom's best friend, brother, or the friend that was responsible for the couple's introduction. In the common wedding in Western cultures, the best man has these duties:

Bachelor party set-up


Taking the bridegroom to the wedding


Wedding planning


Authority and supervision of ushers and groomsmen


Bringing the rings to the wedding


Giving a wedding speech


Giving a toast at the wedding reception


Decorating the bridegroom's vehicle with streaming ribbons, toilet paper, clanking cans, phrases, and whipped cream


Assisting the bridegroom with pre-wedding nerves, jitters, and questions


Mingles with guests


Dances with the maid of honor


Planning the stag weekend in the UK


Coordinate photographs and rented suits for the groomsmen, often in coordination with the look of the bridesmaids' formalwear.

Tips the band, DJ, bussers, etc.

Arranges and pays for the transportation to and from the wedding and reception, i.e., a limosuine or town car

The bride has an equivalent counterpart termed the maid of honor. Traditionally - Germany in 200 A.D. - the best man was used to fight off the relatives of kidnapped brides. The shortage of women had the best man's original role as that of accomplice.

In Anglo-Saxon England, Uganda, and Malaysia, the best man plays the role of bodyguard, protector, and wise counselor in the ways of marriage. Typically, the best swordsman or strongest man was chosen to guard the couple in Anglo-Saxon times.

Your speech should be written ahead of time, and there are plenty of preset scripts, icebreakers, and ideas to work with if you look online. Be confident, be yourself, and maybe you'll hook up with a bridesmaid! The popular Hollywood flick, the Wedding Crashers, distorts the common attraction people naturally incline themselves to at weddings, but it's really there :)

Marriage Relationships: 3 Marriage Relationships Tips To Keep Relationships and Marriage Love-Filled

Marriage relationships can be the most fulfilling life experience you will ever have -- or the worst! You are clearly wise enough to value your relationships and marriage, and to want to make them as special as can be. So what can you do to make your marriage relationships blissful and harmonious, loving, passionate and romantic? Here are 3 tips to keep the sparkle in your relationships and marriage....

1. Relationships as a work of art


What makes a painting valuable? Usually it's the rarity of the painting (there's only one), and the mastery of the artist. Your marriage relationships are just as rare. Nobody can duplicate exactly your marriage or love relationship. It's unique. And that makes it special. If you add to that the attention and care that you choose to give your partnership, you can see how valuable it really is. Start to appreciate your relationships and marriage more. Reframe the way you look at it. Take time to enjoy it. Luxuriate in what is wonderful about it and be sure to express lots of appreciation to your partner for every little thing. And appreciate yourself too -- you created this -- and you will make it even better!

2. Marriage as a pathway to self development


Marriage knocks the sharp edges off you and rounds you out as an individual. In the best marriage relationships, both partners strive hard to keep on improving and growing. That way they remain attractive and interesting to one another. Don't settle into a relationship. Life is an adventure in growth and development. Always strive to improve. Look for ways to be more loving. Exercise your creativity to surprise and delight your partner -- we all want to have fun, especially us gals!

3. Marriage relationships as a focus for love


When you and I eventually leave this mortal coil, it will be the relationships we formed and the love that we gave and received that will be most meaningful for us. Make LOVE your focus in life and your life will be so very rich. Let your marriage relationships be your major life project, your purpose if you will. Learn to give more and to put more love into your relationships and marriage. See just how far you can go and keep pushing back the borders of your love. What a truly wonderful life you will create. As you focus love in on your primary love relationship, and it flourishes under your touch, you will soon find yourself pourring love into all your relationships with family, friends and the world. Such actions make this world a better place.

Antique Engagement Rings

For many couples nowadays, the antique engagement ring is becoming the best choice. Not only are they less expensive, but they also generally have better craftsmanship and are more likely to become an heirloom to future generations. Antique engagement rings have an inherent "smell of charm" and "sense of individuality".

An antique engagement ring is a ring that is over 50 years of age. Sometimes the word antique is used interchangeably with vintage so it's often the case when one person is talking about an antique engagement ring and the other is talking about a vintage engagement ring they may actually be talking about the same thing.

There are different styles of antique engagement rings based on different eras or time. The Victorian Antique engagement ring which dates back to 1835-1900 are engagement rings set on a yellow or rose gold color. It boasts simplicity and elegance in designs but it also often has more intricate craftsmanship than many modern rings. The classic Tiffany six-prong engagement diamond ring belongs to this era. Following this era is the Edwardian antique engagement ring era that took place from 1900-1920. This is the time when Platinum became a massive hit for engagement rings instead of the very colorful yellow or gold rose of the Victorian age. Sapphires became very popular in this era. From 1920-1930, the Art Deco engagement rings became a worldwide hit. In this era the engagement rings have a streamlined, geometric look. The Art Deco rings are at present the most sought-after antique engagement rings for newlyweds.

When buying an antique engagement ring, one should remember to be careful about softer stones like Opal, Emerald, and Pearl as a primary gem on the ring or an accent, as these easily break and may contain damages on the inside when not carefully checked. In addition, one should consider the craftsmanship of the ring when purchasing it. When on a tight budget but considering a better and bigger diamond, it is wise to consider buying an antique engagement ring circa 1930-1940. The diamonds on these rings create a larger size illusion with its elaborately carved settings.

If you are curious about the history of diamond engagement rings, the earliest surviving record of an Antique Diamond Engagement Ring being given was in 1477 from Archduke Maximillian of Hamburg to Mary of Burgundy.

Wedding Rings

In the United States and United Kingdom, women traditionally wore wedding rings much more than the men. Times have changed. Both men and women now wear wedding rings as a sign of their fidelity to each other. But for valid purposes, some occupations or jobs prohibits the wearing of wedding rings while at work such as those working in the police force, actors and electrical workers. Some people remove their rings for safety or comfort especially if their fingers have increased in size over time. An alternative could be wearing a wedding ring as a pendant on a necklace which still translates to the same marriage vows where people wear the rings on their finger.

How Wedding Rings for Couples Started

It was not clear when the practice for both partners to wear a wedding ring started. What is known however is the introduction of a marketing ad aimed at its use during the late 19th century. But even then, it did not attract wide public acceptance and use. It was only after World War II when the practice started gaining popularity and by 1940, around 80% of weddings saw the exchange of wedding rings among marrying couples. This is indeed a big jump compared to only 15% who practiced it before the Great Depression occurred.

Various Practices on Wearing the Wedding Ring

One practice of wearing the wedding ring is placing it below the engagement so that to some, it means it is closer to the heart. On the other hand, other people wear the wedding ring above the engagement ring because the wedding ring supposedly creates a seal of the engagement in the marriage. Others opt to wear the wedding ring alone as this indicates its special meaning to their current life.

The Making of the Wedding Ring

Wedding rings are usually made of gold alloyed with copper, bismuth and tin metals to produce a harder product. Some rings may also be created from white or platinum alloys to give a different shine. Titanium has also gained popularity as a material for wedding rings due to its unique qualities. It is affordable, durable and it comes in a gun metal gray color. In recent years too, tungsten carbide with platinum or gold inlays were also used as a material for wedding ring. Other less expensive materials such as nickel silver and stainless steel has become alternatives for wedding rings. However, aluminum, are almost never used while silver, brass and copper are rarely casted to create a wedding ring.

Styles and Fashion for He and She

The most popular kind of wedding ring is a plain gold band which comes in varying thicknesses and karats. Women usually get the narrower rings while men are given a broader ring for their wedding. Other rings have designs on them such that when placed in light, the ring reflects them in various directions giving them certain sheen. The ring could also be a combination of white and yellow gold to give it a distinctive appearance.

The Benefits of Hiring A Wedding Planner

When planning a wedding, there are a multitude of factors you must consider carefully. One of those factors is whether or not you should simply hire a wedding planner to look at all the other factors for you. This is probably the thing you will want to look at first. Given the sheer amount of pressure and stress that comes with planning a wedding and coordinating everything carefully, it is almost surprising that the wedding actually ends up happening when the dust clears.

It may be a good idea to invest the time to meet with potential wedding planners as many as two or three times, and note the dynamics between your two personalities. You should also call them a few times to see how easy it is to reach them, and how they react to you when you are calling without an appointment to do so. Manufacture a reason to call if necessary.

Before you actually select a wedding planner, who will ultimately make a number of important decisions for you, you will want to interview a number of different planners, so that you can be sure that you find a good personality match. Specifically, you will want to find one who has no problem controlling the third party vendors, but who is also reasonable enough to let you make your own decisions. Afterall, this is your wedding, not hers. No prima donnas need apply!

Rather than hiring a planner to make every decision for you, you will want to hire a planner to help facilitate your making choices instead. You will also want to clearly communicate that you want to reserve the right to change things, as long as doing so is within reason (i.e. as long as the planner has not already made arrangements, spent the money, etc.). In many cases, this means you will need the planner to create a master list for you of various options available for each function of the wedding.

You also want to make sure that your wedding planner is readily accessible to you. This does not just mean they have a cell phone, which can have answering services, but they should have a pager, as well; maybe even a couple of different ways for you to reach them, during normal business hours, at a moment's notice (this can be critical in the last few days before the wedding).

All of these issues should be agreed to in writing, before you sign any contracts with your wedding planner. As well, you want to be sure your wedding planner understands that you require that all agreements made on your behalf be legally binding. Documentation should allow clauses that include what legal recourse you would have if either the wedding planner, or any of the 3rd parties that they contract with on your behalf, do not perform to agreed specifications.

Coming Together with Unity Candles

Unity Candles have come to signify, in many ceremonies and religions, as the culmination of two families. Generally, unity candles are made up of three individual candles. The first two are tapers, which signify the bride and the groom. Each lights their respective taper candle, then combine the two at once to light the third pillar candle, which is joining the unity of the two becoming one.

The unity candles come in a variety of different designs and colors. Many will come with special phrases, words, or engravings that hold a special meaning for the couple. After the lighting of the unity candles, the bride and groom will typically place them in their home as a reminder of their special day, their love, and their commitment. These can be designed with a special poem, the name of the bride and groom, the date, time, and location of the wedding, or any wording desired.

You have many choices when it comes to unity candles. For example, you can find unity candles that come in smokeless and dripless wax. This is a choice for many couples, as it allows the candle to remain intact, little cleanup, and a great ornamental piece for their home.

Engraved oil unity candles are also becoming very popular. The oil is usually contained within glass and provides for easy lighting and there is very little clean up or smoke involved.

For those looking to add some unique touches to their wedding, sand instead of flames might be a great choice. Instead of lighting candles, the couple would mix two different colors of sand into one vial, which stands for mixing their lives together.

When it comes to unity candles, the best thing to do is look for sets. Buying the unity candles in a set allows you to ensure that you have everything you need, as well as matching pieces. In sets, the unity candles will include candle stands, one pillar candle, and two tapers.

For a real personalized and unique addition to your wedding, consider designing and creating your own unity candles. There are many resources on the internet and in bookstores that can guide you in creating your own candles for your special day.

Wedding Planner Guides

Despite everything the day will not be PERFECT and that is OK.

Those small glitches will make it special and memorable. No wedding day is ever perfect. With so many variables things happen; it rains, the soloist gets ill, the flower girl cries down the isle, the groomsmen boutonnières get lost, the reception site didn't use the right linens, the best man's toast wasn't flattering and on and on. No matter how much careful planning you do, things happen - that is life. It could be a minor thing or it could be big deal... the best outcome is a bride and groom that handle it all in stride.

Accept help when it's offered.

Planning your own wedding is a big job. When friends and relatives offer to help you, accept it. You may not know exactly what you need them to do at the time they offer, but keep a list of volunteers for later. There is so much busy work to do, enlist anyone that offers help because you can't do it all yourself. There will be flowers to pick out, cake to taste test, flatware to select, things that need to be picked up, dropped off, gifts hauled, invitations sent and thank yous written.

Respect everyone that is flipping for the bill.

It's hard to please everyone, but if your parents or in-laws are paying for something in your wedding, they are entitled to some say so. As hard as it might be, let them select something that means a lot to them. Conversely, if you are paying for your own wedding, by all means do things your way. Don't be swayed by Mom's guilt trips to invite all her 2nd cousins when you are paying $20 per plate.

Bride and Groom participation.

It's easy to let someone else handle everything, but don't make this mistake with your wedding. Both spouses need to see and understand the budget plan. Don't forget to let your fiance participate in the detailed decision making and final price tag considerations. Getting into a huge disagreement about finances before you're even married is a lousy way to start the rest of your life.

Spend your money wisely.

Think about the things that last after the big day, after the 1st 24 hours of marital bliss. Your photographs, the video, the wedding party gifts, and your honeymoon. Having a 7 tier cake and wine served at dinner are nice touches, but not worth blowing your budget on.

Throw convention to the wind - you might save some money!

Weddings are big business these days. Scheduling your ceremony or reception on a Friday night could save you piles of money and get you the date you want. Wish you could get married in your backyard -do it. No one should say "you have to do it like this" - even Mom. Wedding attendees will be pleasantly surprised to see a new twist on the same old ceremony and reception. Make it fun, make it your day.

Planning a Budget for Your Wedding Day

Recently, my sister got married. The day was absolutely incredible; many memories were made by all. But being the sister and the Maid of Honor, I saw many of the bumps in the road of creating the day that my sister had always dreamed of. Planning a wedding can be, and most likely, will be the most fun and the most frustrating experience you will ever have all wrapped up into one.

Weddings can get very expensive, very quickly. Although there are many ways to cut costs, it is important to figure out a budget prior to getting started so that things don't spiral out of control and cause any unnecessary stress during the planning stages.

Make a list of EVERYTHING that you feel is important for your big day. This detailed list will feature everything from your dress, drinks at the reception, officiant and chapel fees, decorations, flowers, gifts, rings, catering… You get the point; all the 'wedding bells' and whistles should be included.

Sit down with everyone that is going to help you financially and review the list, i.e.: you and your fiance, your parents, his parents and any grandparents or friends of the family that may be contributing. (Please note: use your discretion when you decide whether or not to gather all of these people together at once to discuss finances, you know best if this could potentially cause any unnecessary arguments. If you need to, meet with them separately to keep the peace.)

Next to each item on the list mark who is responsible for each item, keeping in mind that they will probably have a limit to what they are able to give to you. It will help to make a separate page with a breakdown of each party, the amount that they can contribute, and below, a list of all of the things that they would like to offer to you and your fiance.

Now it's time to start to make phone calls. I'm sure that if you are of the age to be married, you have a few places in mind where you'd like to hold your event. Call them and get some ideas of deposit requirements and balances they will require. Call florists, officiants, churches, photographers, and do a lot of research on the internet to find the best prices and make sure that you pay attention to feedback in chat rooms or forum pages. Friends that have been married and people that have had experience with wedding planning are great resources that may help you save money and find the people that will make your day memorable.

Once you have some ideas on prices you can plug in the balances to your sheet and get a better idea of what items you can keep and where you need to cut back. You may need your mother or a bridesmaid to help you with this because you might find it difficult to rate the importance of the things on your list. Just keep in mind that if you are married to the person that you wish to spend the rest of your life with at the end of the day, your mission has been accomplished, the rest is mere details.

At this point you can start to book dates and facilities, try on dresses, and meet with florists or photographers. Throughout your planning, refer to your budget constantly. This will help you stick to your plan and relieve some of the stress while planning your dream wedding. Most importantly, have fun, this is your day, enjoy it.

Maintaining A Healthy Relationship - Rituals For Completing And Pampering Yourself!

In order to have a good relationship you need to be good to yourself. You have to think about the things that you need and want in order to make someone else happy.

Think about the pampering that you like to have and what you need to have on a regular basis. You will want to continue these things throughout your relationship. You may want to think about what is important to you and what you have to have in order to have a healthy lifestyle.

If there are certain things that you like to do, you should continue to do them. After all you want to be happy and the best thing that you can do to make this happen is to keep doing the same things. When you are used to certain rituals for pampering and taking care of yourself, you want to do them so that you can feel good.

Feeling good is the key to having a happy and healthy relationship for a long time. Keeping your relationship strong is one of the most important things that you can do for yourself. You want to think of different things that you can do to make this happen. Once you have achieved your goals and came to a conclusion, you will be able to make your life better in your relationship and on your own.

1) How to keep happy

Your happiness is a great goal for you to achieve. You have to find happiness in your life so that you are able to stay fulfilled. When you are ready to take on a relationship, you have to make sure that you have taken care of yourself first so that you can make this happen.

There is nothing more important than keeping your own happiness above others. No one else is going to do this for you so you have to be in control.

2) Do what you like

When you are in a relationship, you need to stay positive. You have to be in control of the things that are happening around you. When you have control over them, you will see that you will have a happier and healthier relationship that will benefit the both of you. There is no point in being unhappy and negative about things that are going on in your life. When you are open to making positive goals, you will see a better response from those around you as well.

3) Take time out for your mind

Clearing your mind is very important to staying focused. When you are feeling like you are loosing control, you need to set some time away for yourself so that you can get relaxed. You need to stay calm and keep your mind free from clutter. This will help you think well and keep your goals in sight for your relationship. You will have a better outcome with your love life as well as keeping in good spirits and having happy feelings.

4) Staying fit and healthy

Using a good form of exercise is something that will do a lot of good for your relationship as well. When you are physically staying fit, you are giving yourself a better outlook on life. You will be happier and able to express how you are feeling easier. You will not have to be self-conscious and working out is a way to release chemicals that make you feel bad about yourself.

This will in return help your relationship and keep you on the right path to success with your partner or even your friends.

Being good to yourself is one way to make sure that you are doing what you can to make your relationship better and to let you both stay happy. Being sure of the things that you want in life is going to be another way to stay focused and on track.

When you are using good judgments doing what is best for you, any relationship that you are in will be better and keep getting stronger as you move on. Do not be afraid to go for it. Taking chances and doing what makes you happy will give you a greater feeling inside. You will have a better chance at improving your own life skills as well as showing others how they can be happier too.

Selecting Your Bridal Dress

The way you appear to family and friends on one of the most important days of your life is a significant decision to make. While the veil, perfect pair of shoes, and other sparkling accessories can magically decorate a wedding ensemble, it is the bridal dress that really attracts the most attention on this special occasion. This is why exceptional care should be taken to choose this once-in-a-lifetime garment that will be shared with the rest of the world, and especially an eager husband-to-be.

When it comes to selecting a wedding gown, did you know that this choice should be made at least four to six months before the eventful day? This is because a wedding dress is most often delivered to the bride and then undergoes a series of fittings and refitting, if needed.

Ordering a bridal dress is also an important part of the process. The correct size is vital to making sure every detail of matrimony is perfect. As a rule of thumb, if you are in-between sizes at the time of your first fitting, you should side with the larger selection. A tailor can always downsize a larger size, but enlarging a dress is not always an option, which may create undue pressure to lose weight just in time for the big day.

Getting the accurate date of delivery for a bridal gown is another key aspect of planning a wedding. This is a commitment that should be given to you in writing. A bridal gown should arrive at least six weeks before you walk down the aisle. This allows enough time for extra fittings and choosing ideal accessories.

Wedding Dress Details

There is an infinite number of ways to express yourself through the type of wedding dress you select by paying attention to a few main points. For instance, the style, design, color, length, and price of a bridal gown are all important factors to consider when deciding on a final purchase.

Style


The theme or type of wedding you are planning will influence your decisions regarding the kind of dress you will select. For instance, you may choose fancy veils and long, flowing trains to accompany a wedding dress for a highly formal ceremony. Semi-formal and informal wedding plans call for a different bridal gown approach. There are also various decisions in design to consider. Do you want a sleeveless gown? What type of ornamental extras will you have: pearls, rhinestones, ribbon or bows?

Material


The type of material you choose for your bridal gown will affect the kind of appearance you will display at your wedding. When shopping for your dress, don't forget to check out the many different looks of various fabrics. Wedding dresses are often created from lace, silk, satin, tulle, taffeta, and even velvet (for those wintery wedding vows). You should also take the time to notice how each fabric feels against the skin. After all, you don't want to feel uncomfortable on your special day, do you?

Color


While white and ivory dresses are classic, common colors for a bridal gown, numerous trends in the wedding world have evolved to the point that any shade of pink, green, blue, or red is acceptable to match a wide range of wedding themes. In today's society, you may even come across different patterns on bridal gowns, such as polka dots and stripes.

Length


While some women like a dress that drags across the floor, others are testing the waters of bridal gowns that show off the legs. There are plenty of lengths that accommodate any bride-to-be's desires, especially when working with a tailor who can transform a longer dress into a much shorter version. Also, when choosing a dress, you should always keep in mind your height. Women who measure more than 5' 8" should request or select a little extra length on a dress.

Price


Plenty of women spare no expense when it comes to their bridal gown, shelling out thousands and thousands of dollars on intricate detail and costly decoration. Then, there are those who are lucky to find the most flattering design for close to $100. A wide range of wedding dresses exists for the bride-to-be who is working with the smallest to largest of budgets.

Where to Get a Bridal Dress

In every city, there is a bridal shop that specializes in providing wedding dresses. One of the most popular bridal dress chains across the states is called David's Bridal, which offers a wide range of options. Some women will also turn to a professional tailor to recreate a dress they may have seen in a magazine. This process is quite involved with material selection, design, numerous measurements and constant fittings. In this day and age, ordering a bridal gown from the Internet is another convenient option. Once the dress arrives, a tailor can then tweak the final result.

As the big day approaches, remember the above points and hopefully, the enjoyable adventure of selecting a wedding dress will seem less stressful and more successful.

Wedding Flowers

The wedding flowers set the tone of the wedding. Flowers are always been the symbol for happiness and joy. By adding flowers to your wedding, you are expressing happiness, joy, style, and taste. Flowers come in different shapes and colors. So, there are many ways to express thru flowers.

A variety of flowers may be abundant on a particular season (summer, fall, winter, and spring). Thus, the flower theme may be different for each season. Typically, the roses and lilies are the wedding flower of choice. However, more variety of flowers appears in a contemporary wedding. Here are a few popular wedding flowers with their description.

Roses

This flower is the most popular garden flower. Rose is coin from Latin word Rosa. Each color has special meaning. For example, red means love, white means purity or innocence, yellow means friendship, and orange means desire and enthusiasm. Roses can also have many meaning on how you give the rose. For example, three roses mean I love you, and ninety nine roses mean lots of love. The rose petals are a favorite for wedding tosses.

Calla Lilies

The flower is from the Greek word "Kallos". It means beauty. The beautiful arrow shaped flower provides an incomparable elegance to the wedding. The flower is also called Water Arum, Bog Arum, Wild Calla, and Water Dragon. The lilies bloom between June and July.

Casa Blanca Lilies

This flower has the most romantic flower name. The wedding roles of the flowers are to provide the classic beauty and romance of wedding. Meanwhile, the natural fragrance lifts the height and drama of the wedding.

Carnations

It is the national flower of Spain. The flower vibrates with pinkish-hued natural color. Now, the florists manage to cultivate red, white, yellow, and green flowers. The name of the flower is believed to come from "coronation", or "corone". And, the Greek used the flower as a crown flower garland.

Daffodils

It is a flower with central trumpet crown. The crown sits around flower petals. The natural color is gold yellow. Nowadays, breeders developed several rows to resemble a golden yellow ball, compressed crown to resemble bottle soda cap, or frilled petal to resemble daisy petals.

Dahlias

It is the national flower of Mexico. The name of the flower is from Swedish 18th century botanist called Anders Dahl. The flower is brightly and stunningly colored with many pointy flower petals.

Daisies

The flower brightens the wedding. The most popular is the Shanty Daisy. It has a yellow center which is surrounded with white petals.

Stephanotis

It is cluster of flowers which is waxy, scented, and star-shaped. After a few days, the flowers fade to yellow. You will often see the flower in bridal corsages, bouquets, and decorations. And, the flower emits a long lasting sweet scent. So, the bridal corsages and bouquets add a distinct style of the wedding dresses of the bride, maid of honor, and bridesmaids.

Tulips

The flower grows in cold climate areas. The bell shaped flower come in vibrant red, yellow, white, and yellow. Popular in Netherlands, North America, and Australia, they made a festival out of the flower.

Tips For Selecting The Perfect Wedding Favor

Originating in Europe, wedding traditions such as throwing rice and crumbling cake above the bride's head symbolized fertility and luck. Offering trinkets or wedding favors to guests signified gratitude and unity between the two families. The tradition of giving wedding guests a small token of appreciation has grown in popularity throughout the years. Here are a few tips on how to choose your wedding favors.

A Favor is a Favor - Not so. Modern brides want their wedding favors to mirror their individuality and style. In fact, coordinating your wedding favors to match your decorations or wedding theme makes for a beautiful and memorable celebration.

Candy - Candy is one of the most popular choices for wedding favors. Three almonds, representing fertility/health, harmony and happiness coated with white sugar, symbolic of purity, wrapped in tulle are popular wedding favors. Brides are also leaning toward chocolate kisses, roses, spoons, cinnamon sticks, tea-sickles, and mints or truffles placed in tulle rounds or tin favor boxes.

Candles - For brides who prefer an inedible gift, candle wedding favors are excellent because they also double as table decorations. There are so many options to choose from with candle wedding favors, it is easy to coordinate them with almost any wedding theme.

Do-IT-Yourself - Many brides choose to make their own wedding favors in order to express their creativity and personal interests. By inserting a different piece of tulle in its levels, and then inserting the candy filler through a tube pushed down in the center and tying off with a ribbon, anyone can create an attractive favor.

Pack the wedding favors in charming containers, such as white-cardboard candy boxes, glassine envelopes, little metal tins, cellophane bags or tiny terra cotta pots. Look for these and other wedding favor packaging online, or you can also find them at arts, crafts, stationery or baking-supply stores.

Embellish each wedding favor package with ribbon or other festive trimmings. To personalize these wedding favors, add tags or adhesive labels with the names, monogram or the wedding date of you and your spouse-to-be.

Personalization - Personalized wedding favors have become the norm. To encourage personalization, sticky glue-pens and crafting powder are included with most do-it-yourself wedding favor kits. With favor kits, brides are able to weave their color scheme and wedding theme throughout their event. Wedding favors, centerpieces, and even balloon weights can all be coordinated to match the decor.

Place Card Holders - Wedding favors can double as table place cards if you display them near the reception entrance. In this case, the tags should bear the name of each guest and his or her table number. You can also set the wedding favors at each table place to direct your guests to their seats. Another idea is to surprise your guests with a beautiful display table where they will discover their favors at the end of the celebration as they head out the door.

In conclusion, wedding favors are one of those wonderful details that can make your wedding unique. Your wedding favors need not be elaborate or expensive. The key? Make the gift simple, then personalize the presentation.

What is it Worth to You?

By the time young women are of the "marrying age", most have uttered these words, "I always dreamed of a big, fancy wedding."

Most little girls do dream of big, fancy weddings. In fact, their play often involves placing a white veil on their heads - perhaps nothing more than a sheer curtain attached to a headband – and walking with a plastic bouquet down an imaginary church aisle. If no neighborhood boys or brothers can be coerced into playing the part of the groom, then the girls take turns being bride and groom.

Those dreaming young girls have no idea what the cost of a wedding might be, and by the time they come to that realization, they have their hearts set and daddy and husband-to-be aren't about to shatter the bride-to-be's dreams. Mom usually has a dream of her own – her beautiful daughter in a very expensive gown, walking down the aisle of a huge church. Afterwards, the dreams of Mom and daughter see a large hall filled with food and people, music and fun.

Still, most fathers make at least one attempt to persuade their daughters to consider taking a sum of money and either eloping or planning a very small gathering of friends and family, instead of spending so much on a grand wedding event. Perhaps more daughters should consider doing just that.

The wedding industry would disagree. Their pocketbooks are lined as the dream weddings are planned and performed. Why would they want that to change?

But each man and woman planning to be married should consider whether or not having one day that costs between $15,000 and $60,000 or more is really worth that amount of money. It is only one day, and it is the ceremony itself that is the important thing, not the glitter that tags along. The words exchanged, the love shared, the plans of a future together are the important things.

Weddings never go off as planned. There are problems, some minor and some major, in the planning and execution of every wedding. And in the midst of planning, lives are changed, feelings are hurt, harsh words are exchanged, and relationships are marred. Is having a huge wedding really worth all of that?

If the father of the bride offers money to help avoid all the pitfalls of having a gargantuan wedding, should the future bride and groom consider such an offer? Perhaps.

1) Would the money help pay off student loans, thereby relieving the couple of that debt?

2) Could the money be used for a good vehicle?

3) Would the money make a good down payment on a house or condominium? Or would, if placed into an investment plan or savings account, would the money be the foundation for buying a house at a later date?

Can a wedding be one that everyone will remember, even if it does not include using the best caterers in town and the fanciest ballroom? Of course. There are other halls available, and often family and friends can be even better caterers.

Must the bride buy her wedding gown from the most expensive bridal store in town? Of course not. Major retailers offer some excellent choices right off the rack.

Invitations can be simple and less expensive and still elegant. Flower arrangements and bouquets can be simple and elegant as well for those on a tight budget.

Some say that how you plan your wedding and spend money for that one day of your life affects how you think about money issues in the marriage. Learning to be frugal and wise from the beginning benefits any marriage relationship.

Even if the bride's parents can afford it, does it really make sense to plan a wedding that costs more than the average person makes in one year? Is it really worth the time, the inconvenience, and the relationship strains that come from spending months and months planning that picture perfect monstrous wedding, that will never be picture perfect? It's definitely something to ponder.

Wedding Invitations - How to Make The Right Choice

One of the first steps you will make in preparing for your wedding is choosing the invitations. Keep in mind that the invitations to your wedding will be the first announcement seen by your invited guests. Therefore, the invitations should reflect your personal style, encompass the theme or style of the wedding, and provide information to invitees. Here are a few tips on how to make the right choice.

It is important when choosing your wedding invitations that appropriate time frames be taken into account. Typically, invitations going to local guests are mailed out four weeks prior to the wedding. Out-of-town guests will need more time to make plans. Six weeks is a good time frame. Modern brides are now notifying their guests of their upcoming wedding with a "Save the Date" card. This is a small card listing the bride and groom's name and the date of the nuptials. It is usually mailed out six to eight months before the wedding. It is important to note that this does not replace the formal invitation.

Just as you would do for many aspects of the wedding, ordering invitations should also include an outlined and executed contract. The contract will contain the style of paper, font, coloring, information, and delivery date of the invitations. Make sure that prior to signing any contract you have the opportunity to see samples of your chosen invitations.

When choosing a printer, you may decide to work with an individual or a smaller printing company. Smaller vendors typically have a better selection. However, larger stationary stores or bridal shops will normally be less expensive.

In addition to choosing the style of your wedding invitations, we should also consider postage expense. For example, sending out a one-page invitation would obviously cost less than including RSVP cards or inserts. Keep in mind, the more paper, the more money it will cost to mail. Don 't forget to add the cost of stamps on your RSVP envelopes when calculating your budget.

The good news is that you have a number of options to help save you money without sacrificing quality and style. Make sure you order your invitations in plenty of time. Rush orders are much more costly. You must order between 10-15 extra invitations with envelopes just in case of addressing mistakes or last minute guest additions. Skipping this step could cost you big money.

Here is a look at some of the decisions you will have to make:

Paper Options

Card Stock – Matte type paper, available in a nice variety of weights and colors.

Cotton Fiber – Strong paper made from 100% cotton.

Deckle Edge – Handmade paper with torn-looking edges.

Glassine – Thin, shiny paper typically used for envelopes.

Handmade – Customized paper made from your choice of natural materials to include
vegetables, flowers, and herbs.

Laid – Lightweight paper with a textured finish.

Linen – Semi-rough paper resembling linen fabric.

Marbled – Paper with a marbling look.

Overlay – Translucent or delicate paper placed on top of other paper.

Parchment – Translucent and cloudy paper with a gorgeous appearance.

Vellum – Translucent, lightweight paper generally used for overlay.

Printing Options

Calligraphy – Created by hand or done with calligraphy font from a computer, rich and
elegant.

Emboss – Ink-free and stylish, letters are pushed from the backside of the paper.

Engraving – Elegant printing with raised lettering.

Letterpress – Handcrafted appearance with distinct designs.

Offset – Flat and basic but available in a variety of colors.

Thermography – Glossy and polished with raised lettering on the front and smooth on the back of the paper.

In summary, give yourself plenty of time to choose your wedding invitations. There are so many
options to choose from, you will have no problem finding the perfect style at the right price to compliment your wedding day.

Choosing Your Wedding Car

The right wedding car can add a touch of magic and class to your special day. The journey to your wedding ceremony is the most significant ride you will ever make.

The wedding car is more than just a means of transporting you to and from the ceremony – after all it will be the last place you gather your thoughts as an excited and beautiful bride to be and the first intimate space you will share as newly weds.

Selecting a wedding car should be a fun but serious exercise. Visit each prospective car supplier or chauffeur and ask for a test ride. You wouldn't get married in a dress you've never tried on and the same should go for your wedding car!

Check the interior. Is it spacious, will it accommodate the bridal gown (especially important if the dress has an elegant but delicate train), is there plenty of room to egress gracefully? Wear the same size heels as your wedding shoes and practice getting in and out of the car. You want to be poised and elegant on the day, especially as cameras will be documenting your every move! The last few minutes before the ceremony can be a little tense so ensure that the wedding car is comfortable and a relaxing space.

Reliability is obviously essential. When you visit your chauffeur or wedding car specialist pay attention to their premises not just the car. A company or chauffeur that looks after their premises will also look after their car! You don't want to risk a breakdown on the day do you?

Finally you will want to decide what style and age of car will best compliment your dress and the wedding ceremony itself. You can get a very modern model, something as sleek an elegant as a Mercedes, a traditional Rolls Royce or you can opt for a vintage car. It all depends on the theme of your wedding, and of course, your budget. Most wedding car suppliers have several models so don't restrict you choice.

Traditionally most wedding cars are white but don't let that dictate your final choice. An elegant cream may best compliment your dress, silver is timeless and classical or you may opt for a stronger, solid colour. Lastly, ensure that your chauffeur dresses both himself and the car in a style that compliments the theme of your day! As with every other aspect of planning a wedding, it's the details that frequently add that final sparkle to your wedding day.

How Not To Take A Relationship For Granted

The true value of being in a relationship is the ability to share. The sharing can be of feelings, observations and opinions. Entering into a permanent relationship such as marriage, means that you have decided that this other person is someone with whom you can share your most precious commodity, your life.

If one enters into any relationship with this notion of sharing, then it is impossible to take the other person for granted.

I am in the fortunate position of working with my wife. We are therefore able to truly share our lives, both our working lives and home life. I have lost count of the number of times that people have expressed their opinion on our relationship. They have intimated that spending so much time together can't possibly be good for us. Such people don't understand the importance of sharing ones lives.

It is often observed that as people grow together, through their relationship, that they start to think and act like each other. They may even start to anticipate their partner's actions or finish their sent...... This is surely an ideal state to reach? In such a situation, one's partner has become an integral part of one's life. There can be little doubt that neither, of the partners in such a relationship, could ever take each other for granted.

The opposite of love is not, as most people would assume, hate. The opposite of love is indifference. At least with hate, in its truest sense, there is still passion. Whereas with indifference you have stopped caring about your partners needs and wants. The love has gone and the sharing one's lives had ended.

How to Rescue and Sustain a Long Distance Relationship

There are lots of things that one must do and lots that one must not do in order to rescue and sustain a long-distance relationship. Below is some advice that may look simple but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more effort than you think.

Establish an effective communication channel

Most people will think that the telephone is the most convenient mode of communication, but there are other means of communication that help keep in touch and say things you might not say over the phone. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them.

Plan to meet each other

There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other at intervals throughout your long distance relationship. If you think you can sustain the relationship on patience and daily chats, it doesn't happen. It's also a sign of commitment if you take the trouble of actually visiting your partner or better, paying them a surprise visit.

Find a hobby that you can both share

By finding and sticking to a common hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your long distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting.

Surprise your partner

Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letters and flowers when they least expect it. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your efforts to keep them happy.

Capture and share that interesting moment

You can always capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will keep your partner informed on what has happened in your life despite the physical distance.

Essential Tips For Choosing A Wedding Photographer

For ladies and gentlemen alike, weddings are the type of thing that dreams are made of. If a wedding is what you desire, you probably have a certain idea in mind. Things should go your way on your wedding day and come together perfectly to create a memory that will last you and your loved one a lifetime.

Choosing the right wedding photographer has a lot more bearing on the failure or success of your wedding and the way that you remember your wedding than you think. Without a good wedding photographer, all you have to rely on to pass down your beautiful wedding memories is your own memory—and we all know that the mind doesn't last forever, whereas pictures might as well.

The fact about wedding photographers is that frankly, they are not cheap at all. You might be able to find a good deal on a wedding photographer from some agencies or individuals, but you might want to check out some examples of work that particular photographer has already done, just to be sure that what you are getting is what you really want and are willing to pay for.

Here are a few tips to help you choose the right wedding photographer for your special day:

*Figure out exactly how much they are going to charge you per hour of service, or whether or not they charge a base fee just for attending the event.

*Ask the potential wedding photographer how many hours count as a standard day to them; some photographers make most of their money charging their clients to work hours above and beyond their normal schedule, so be sure to find out in advance.

*Make sure you read the contract first. This is the most important thing of all. Your contract can really make or break your wedding photographer experience. This is where you get all of the information on hourly rates, number of hours to be at the event, and any additional costs beforehand, to avoid any potential problems.

*Know how long it will take you to get your proofs and/or prints back. Time is of the essence. We all know that if too much time has gone by after the event, we tend to lose interest and enthusiasm in seeing the pictures. In this sense, also keep in mind that the amount you pay should be somewhat proportional to how long it will actually take before you get to see the pictures.

Choosing a wedding photographer is never easy. It's one of those headaches that just go along with planning a wedding and that is something that must be accepted. However, by paying close attention and choosing a wedding photographer who you can communicate well with will help guarantee that your special day goes as smoothly and problem-free as it possibly can. Then you can remember your special day the way you always wanted to.

Should You Commoditize Your Worth in a Relationship?

We live in a capitalist society, and in this kind of society everything is viewed as a commodity. We view our wallet size, our body size, our house size, our education level, and our level of attractiveness as commodities within relationships. Many times in relationships we base our worth and the worth of our mates on capitalist principles. We may say or think "I know I couldn't get a man that is attractive because I am not attractive" or " I can get any mate I want because I look damn good."

Now, I am not naïve enough to believe that things like beauty, prestige, and wealth have not played a part in keeping long lasting relationships together. However, if we make the mistake of confusing superficial attributes with substance we may pay a huge price.

I am not just referring to the lost dollars, the lost property, and/or the loss of time with children that two superficial people may experience when they have to part. The bigger price tag comes from the damage to your spirit and your soul.

One consequence of viewing ourselves as commodities can be distrusting another who loves us just the way we are because we do not think we measure up to society's standard of beauty or wealth. Another is missing out on love from someone who we think doesn't have the right commodities.

Countless time I have heard women and men talk about "bringing something to the table" when referring to relationships. Since when did love become a business? I do understand that when a man and women join in marriage they have the opportunity to build a life together and a byproduct of that is financial gain. However, in my opinion, when they join it should always be about a mutual love and respect they have for each other. Otherwise, the union will be headed to a sure demise.

When my husband and I met, we were both very broke, one of us was in school, one was not. We both had questionable credit, and neither of us had a car. I was young, very shapely, and very attractive. Prior to meeting him I had used what some might call "my assets" to date men that had more money than I. However, when I met him I knew immediately that he was a man of substance and value, and I fell in love. Once we married we worked together to build things like credit, and businesses. We both know that if those things go away, our love won't crumble because our relationship wasn't built on those things.

If we strive to be the best we can be internally and externally, then we can have faith that we will attract someone of similar substance. We do not have to limit ourselves to what society dictates to us. Love is about compatibility, trust and respect. We can love anyone we want, once we release the chains society places on us.