Thursday, May 10, 2007

How To Make Your Own Wedding Centerpieces

Wedding centerpieces are a focal point of any wedding reception decor. As such, its important to make sure your centerpieces are attractive, not distracting. Here are a few tips on how to make sure your centerpieces live up th their name.

If you want to keep things really simple you may choose to simply float flowers and candles in crystal bowls. But it does not mean you can't have many other choices that are also easy. You can even make them yourself and they don't have to cost the sun and the moon.

Fruity Centerpieces

Fruits are not only easily available but add the right amount of color. If you are using citrus fruits your tables will smell divine. Slice up lemons and oranges in thin slices. Insert some florists' foam into a transparent vase and start to arrange the slices on the sides to show off the sliced sections. Insert the foam a little into the vase so that the slices stay in place. Then simply add your flowers and you are done. Add some citrus themed wedding favors to your table and the decor will be stunning.

If you are a winter bride and planning your wedding in the evening time indoors then, use a large mirror and seat it flat on your tables. On the mirror you can place a colorful arrangement of flowers and fruits and then on the corners, a little away from the arrangement place tea lights. The arrangement will reflect in the mirror and so will the candles, doubling your centerpiece, looking simple but exceptional.

If you want to use candles, you could core the apple first, Core the apple all the way through. Insert pillar candles in fall colors (orange, gold, sage and burgundy). You could create a cluster of the apples on a plate, or line them up in a row on a long silver tray. You can obtain vines of fall flowers or leaves at the dollar store which you could intertwine throughout the apples.

You could also scoop out a portion of the apples and insert a tea light into them. Make sure you level off the bottom by slicing a piece off to keep them from rolling over. If you don't want them to brown, touch them up with a bit of lemon juice and they will stay fresh longer.

Floral and Veggie Centerpieces

Perfect for Spring wedding ceremonies, herbal weddings or even a classic theme. Make a floral topiary with fresh or silk flowers. Take ready-made topiary forms and embellish them with fresh or silk flowers. You don't have to stick to just flowers here. You can use pine cones, fruit slices and even nuts in your topiary to add interest. If you want to cut down on the size of the topiary go in for tea cup topiaries. Use a simple tea cup and make your topiary within it. They are ideal for Victorian or English theme weddings.

If you want to dress your Parisian or English parties with those fashionable hats then that might not be so difficult to achieve. Get sturdy straw hats and attach real or fake flowers to them with florists wire . Present these hats on busts and decorate with sheer ribbons and tulle.

Pumpkins are just the thing for your harvest tables. Make a pumpkin luminary for your wedding. Scoop out all the contents of the pumpkin and cut heart shapes into the sides. Place a candle within and decorate around it with waxed fall leaves, pine cones colored gold, nuts and even acorn caps.

Beach Themed Centerpieces

Beach weddings are so fun and you can make some truly beautiful beach-themed centerpieces to decorate your tables. Colored sand is easily available at craft stores, or add color to ordinary sand with water and a few drops of food coloring. Take some interesting bottles and fill in these with different colors of sand to group together or even make layers of different colors in a single bottle. Simple and effective. Insert a taper on the top or even put in one layer of glittered sand.

Seashell candles are really easy to make and you can use them on their own or combine them with beach wedding favors. Melt some beeswax into a shell and insert a wick into it and you're done. If you think these won't last as long then take a tea light and sit it into a shell filled with sand for balance. However if a tea light does not fit snugly it will look odd so you could add camouflage with other smaller shells. Fill clear glass bowls with water tinted blue with food coloring. Float some plastic fish into this.

In summary, centerpieces don't have to be a very complex affair as we have seen. These are just some things you can do. Let your imagination run wild to come up with truly unique pieces to adorn your tables.

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Thursday, April 26, 2007

Fabulous Gifts For The Bride

There are few things in life more wonderful than getting married. It just gives a good feeling to see two people in love starting out together, doesn't it?

Buying gifts for the wedding or engagement party is almost as fun as buying gifts for yourself, but wedding gifts don't have to break the bank. In fact, it's usually cheaper to buy the couple a something for their new home rather than giving them cash. So, if you want some great gift ideas (because the thought of giving them a toaster just makes you cringe …), read on. We've got some great ones.

For a Creative Gift

Well, that high-priced photographer is going to produce mounds of photographs, all of which will need a home. A photo album or funky, artistic frame is always a good choice for a wedding gift.

Or, why not think about getting the happy couple something to do together in their leisure time? Perhaps a picnic basket and set of picnic supplies, a doublewide hammock, or an exquisite wine gift basket.

For a Healthy Gift

If the newly married couple is into healthy or organic living, why not put together a gardening kit for them? Find some organic vegetable or flower seeds, and collect all the tools they'll need to garden together in the backyard.

You could also think about ordering them a gift basket full of organic foods. With all the stress of planning and pulling off a wedding, it might be nice to just relax one night and munch on some organic, tasty treats!

For Pure Decadence

Decadent gifts can be anything from the pure luxurious to the downright fun. With all the blenders and plates the couple is going to be getting, why not lighten things up and get them a basket full of games? Stock it up with things they can play together, everything from a deck of cards to Monopoly.

If you're thinking luxurious, well the sky is only limited by your imagination! What about a digital photo frame? One of these will allow them to upload all their wedding pictures. The screen changes every few seconds, so they always get to look at a new picture.

For the Time Honored Gift

What about an expensive journal and pen to record their wedding experience in? It would definitely be an adventure to look back on 10 years from now and read about how Aunt Marge got drunk at the reception and lead the conga line for over an hour!

Or, what about some personalized stationary to write thank you notes on?

For a Technology Gift

If you're thinking luxurious and techie, why not purchase a new home theater system? There's almost nothing better than curling up to a good movie with theater surround-sound (although it might be hard to resist keeping this one for yourself …).

If that's a little out of budget, what about nice photo printer to print all their wedding pictures out on? If you're feeling a bit on the luxurious side, you can also stock them up on ink refills as well.

With a little advance planning and creativity, you can go above and beyond the toaster and blender cliché of wedding gifts. You'll give a gift that's unexpected, appreciated, and certainly memorable!

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Saturday, April 07, 2007

The Bride - The Wedding, Dress, Accessories

A bride is the female celebrant in a marriage ceremony. The term bride comes from the German word for a cook. The bride's wedding day is attended by one or more bridesmaids or maids of honor. Her male partner is the groom.

Before a bride can be officially called a wife she must finish the formal wedding procedure. In some cultures, successful sexual intercourse between the bride and groom is a required element to complete the wedding ceremony.

The usual attire for a bride is a formal dress and sometimes brides wear a tiara to add a more fabulous look. For first marriages, a white dress is worn as a symbol of virginity and happiness, these a tradition having been started at Queen Victoria's wedding. Etiquette prescribes that a white dress may not be worn for future marriages but this guideline is often ignored with brides wearing white dresses for any number of marriages. In addition to the gown of the bride, there is an option to put on a veil and carry a corsage of flowers. In some areas, a garter may be worn to be removed by the groom at a later time after the ceremony, mostly done during the reception program to be witnessed by all the visitors.

The bride's gown is essential in the wedding ceremony. Visitors are waiting for the bride to come out in the bridal car and walk down the aisle so that they can witness the dress. Accessories are the perfect creative opportunity to complement the dress. The accessories you select will provide the final touches to your stunning outfit for the day. Allow adequate time for their choosing, as they will play a major part in your overall appearance. Add earrings, a necklace or maybe a bracelet. The right necklace can really finish off a plain top and nude neckline. Similarly, the best earrings will add a touch of glitter to your face. There are no rules in choosing the jewelry you wear, as long as they suit the rest of your look.

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Sunday, April 01, 2007

More Tips For The Wedding Dress

Buying your wedding dress is a major concern. You should choose wisely and in good time. Plan well in advance so that it is not rushed or a last-minute expense. Also, make it your personal project so that you get into the details like a terrier. In this way you will get it sorted more quickly and more successfully.

Don't forget the power of two or more. You are better off shopping for your wedding dress with a companion or two. Tugging a buddy with you makes this whole shopping ordeal more worthwhile. Also, you get the bonus of having another opinion in choosing your wedding dress. More on, your friend's opinion is more likely to be more objective than what you have as they probably won't get overwhelmed by the beauty of your wedding dress that they'd end up disregarding your budget. Also, it feels so much better hearing compliments from another person other than salespeople; more so if they come from your friends.

Try to give a larger piece of the pie for salespeople. To avoid feeling frustrated, it's always best to let salespeople know a bigger part of the picture. They can't help you much if your descriptions are so general about your wedding dress. Let them help you better by confiding in them your taste, the designs you have in mind and the particular season you plan to get married. This narrows your search down to just a part of their wedding dress selection. Also, don't feel afraid about sharing with them the budget you have for your wedding dress. This is so you won't end up fitting in multifarious wedding dresses which are, in the first place, way beyond your budget. The worse thing than wasting too much of your time is blowing your budget for your wedding dress.

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Friday, March 16, 2007

Planning a Budget for Your Wedding Day

Recently, my sister got married. The day was absolutely incredible; many memories were made by all. But being the sister and the Maid of Honor, I saw many of the bumps in the road of creating the day that my sister had always dreamed of. Planning a wedding can be, and most likely, will be the most fun and the most frustrating experience you will ever have all wrapped up into one.

Weddings can get very expensive, very quickly. Although there are many ways to cut costs, it is important to figure out a budget prior to getting started so that things don't spiral out of control and cause any unnecessary stress during the planning stages.

Make a list of EVERYTHING that you feel is important for your big day. This detailed list will feature everything from your dress, drinks at the reception, officiant and chapel fees, decorations, flowers, gifts, rings, catering… You get the point; all the 'wedding bells' and whistles should be included.

Sit down with everyone that is going to help you financially and review the list, i.e.: you and your fiance, your parents, his parents and any grandparents or friends of the family that may be contributing. (Please note: use your discretion when you decide whether or not to gather all of these people together at once to discuss finances, you know best if this could potentially cause any unnecessary arguments. If you need to, meet with them separately to keep the peace.)

Next to each item on the list mark who is responsible for each item, keeping in mind that they will probably have a limit to what they are able to give to you. It will help to make a separate page with a breakdown of each party, the amount that they can contribute, and below, a list of all of the things that they would like to offer to you and your fiance.

Now it's time to start to make phone calls. I'm sure that if you are of the age to be married, you have a few places in mind where you'd like to hold your event. Call them and get some ideas of deposit requirements and balances they will require. Call florists, officiants, churches, photographers, and do a lot of research on the internet to find the best prices and make sure that you pay attention to feedback in chat rooms or forum pages. Friends that have been married and people that have had experience with wedding planning are great resources that may help you save money and find the people that will make your day memorable.

Once you have some ideas on prices you can plug in the balances to your sheet and get a better idea of what items you can keep and where you need to cut back. You may need your mother or a bridesmaid to help you with this because you might find it difficult to rate the importance of the things on your list. Just keep in mind that if you are married to the person that you wish to spend the rest of your life with at the end of the day, your mission has been accomplished, the rest is mere details.

At this point you can start to book dates and facilities, try on dresses, and meet with florists or photographers. Throughout your planning, refer to your budget constantly. This will help you stick to your plan and relieve some of the stress while planning your dream wedding. Most importantly, have fun, this is your day, enjoy it.

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