After The Wedding - Where To Live?

An important factor that newly-weds must consider for after the wedding is where they wish to live. As husband and wife, logically, they are expected to live under one roof, hence they must decide on where they want to establish their home. Of course, such a decision will have been contemplated well before the marriage ceremony. Some couples are already living together even before the wedding.

Planning on a permanent home can be difficult for couples who live in different cities or localities. This is something that should be resolved prior to the wedding so that this will no longer be a major concern. You must take into account such factors as your birthplace, your heritage, your love or dislike of the areas you are currently living and, of course, where you work and where you friends are.

Choosing can sometimes be fraught with difficulty. Should you live near HIS place or HERS? Does it matter if you have to travel to see your family or should your partner have to do that? It can be a true cause of conflict and sometimes needs careful planning and negotiation. Bear in mind that the place you choose will be a permanent place at least for a few years.

But, don't fret. Statistics show that couples will move throughout their married life – as their own family grows and as employment responsibilities develop. Nevertheless, you would wish to be comfortable and settles (or as much as you can be) right from the start.

Make sure you spend a good amount of time deciding on your shared home. Make concessions where they are warranted, avoid being stubborn and take the other person's view into account.